jul. - Hari Nef says she has started dating straight men after seeing mostly gay or bisexual men since beginning her transition. She is now appearing alongside Kristen Stewart, Amandla Stenberg and Zayn Malik on the cover of Elle's September issue as one of four key Hari Nef ELLE UK/ Bjarne Jonasson. For 5 dager siden - Dating apps aren't always lovely for trans and non-conforming people (Picture: Dave Anderson for womenatbusiness.eu). One of my best friends has a new man. Where did she meet him? Tinder, of course. Tinder's where boys go to meet girls and girls go to meet boys. But where do you go if you're aren't binary?Mangler: kristen. jul. - Fast-forward to the new issue of Elle U.K. and Stewart is holding fast to that principal, eschewing labels and instead just comfortably talking about her relationship with her longtime girlfriend, Alicia Cargile. "When I was dating a guy I was hiding everything that I did because everything personal felt like it was.